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Our response to a traumatic experience

  Very few people have had everything "laid with roses" in their lives, which also means that their life flows like a river without rapids and cliffs. At least occasionally, every person encounters problems that we overcome in one way or another, successfully or unsuccessfully. At least occasionally, in our daily lives, we encounter insults, slander, rejection and harm, as well as many other negative inputs into our lives. Some experts advise not to respond to insults, while others advise that it is better to deny them immediately, as they can escalate into public lynchings. Slander is difficult to prove and usually leads to the path of proving one's innocence. In other words, insinuations to our detriment or even simple mobbing can have many meanings and/or reasons for taking advantage. In any case, in such mutual relationships, we very often over-explain the actual situation and reveal our information. If we are lucky, we do not make things worse by reacting this way, ...
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Naš odziv na travmatično izkušnjo

  Zelo redki so ljudje, ki jim je bilo v življenju vse z "rožcami postlano", kar pomeni tudi, da jim življenje teče kot reka brez brzic in čeri. Vsaj občasno se vsak človek sreča s težavami, ki jih tako ali drugače, uspešno ali neuspešno prebrodimo. Vsaj občasno srečamo v svojem vsakdanjem življenju žalitve, obrekovanje, zavrnitve in oškodovanje ter še mnoge druge negativne inpute v naše življenje. Nekateri strokovnjaki svetujejo, da naj se na žalitve ne odzovemo, spet drugi, da jih je bolje takoj demantirajo, saj se lahko razbohotijo v javne linče.  Obrekovanje je težko dokazljivo in ponavadi pelje na pot dokazovanja svoje nedolžnosti. Oziroma natolcevanje v našo škodo ali pa celo čisto enostavni mobing ima lahko veliko pomenov in/ali razlogov za okoriščanje.  Vsekakor pa ob takšnih medsebojnih odnosih zelo pogosto na veliko razlagamo dejansko stanje in razkrivamo svoje podatke. Če smo srečni si s takšno reakcijo ne povzročimo še hujšega stanja, saj ravno obrekovalci tak...
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Behind the curtain of the image of success

  The belief in the development of the northern hemisphere of planet Earth is dissipating even at the mere sight of capitals and tourist centers in the southern hemisphere. The Covid-19 epidemic has also fueled debates about the northern illusion of a good standard of living of the so-called northerners, as the European continent was in the highest place in terms of the number of infected people per million inhabitants and the number of deaths per million inhabitants. The Covid-19 epidemic is a good measure of success, as experts believe it will primarily affect the poor population, who also do not have access to clean drinking water and adequate nutrition.  The Covid-19 epidemic has disappeared, but the unresolved issue of the illusion of a good northern standard of living remains, especially on the European continent and thus also in the EU. The Covid-19 epidemic has also caused an economic catastrophe due to measures to restrict movement and close down activities in the ind...
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