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Obsession with others

  Sometimes we really like to hear about so-called others. In this way, we somehow forget about ourselves, our joys and our sorrows. We also forget that those who talk about others have not told us anything about themselves and may also be obsessed with this person, especially given the fact that we like to hear about others. Why would we talk about others and/or analyze them sociologically and psychologically and in any other way is a good question. A good question is also whether we get appropriate information from these people who talk about others. And of course, there is also a corresponding doubt about their professional qualifications for personally analyzing others and an even greater doubt about their personal culture, so that they also disseminate their findings. However, when listening to rumors or the truth, we may also bump into the principle of illegal information gathering and dissemination of rumors. In principle, we should talk about others to the extent that their...
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Obsedenost z drugimi

  Včasih zelo radi poslušamo o tako imenovanih drugih. Tako nekako pozabimo nase, na naše veselje in naše žalosti. Pozabimo pa tudi, da nam tisti, ki govorijo o drugih, niso ničesar povedali o sebi in so lahko tudi obsedeni z to osebo, predvsem ob dejstvu, da radi poslušamo o drugih. Zakaj bi govorili o drugih in/ali jih sociološko in psihološko in kako še drugače analizirali je dobro vprašanje. Dobro vprašanje je tudi ali od teh ljudi, ki govore o drugih,  dobimo ustrezne informacije. In seveda je tudi ustrezen dvom v njihovo strokovno usposobljenost za osebno analiziranje drugih in še večji dvom v njihovo osebno kulturo, da svoje ugotovitve tudi razširjajo.  Lahko pa ob poslušanju govoric ali resnica trknemo tudi ob načelo protizakonitega zbiranja informacij in razširjanja govoric. Načeloma naj bi namreč govorili o drugih, v kolikor se nas njihova dejanja posredno ali neposredno zadevajo, oziroma imajo na nas in naše premoženje neposredno ali posredno delovanje. Drugače...
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Calculativity and/or common sence

  Calculativity and/or common sense can be discussed at length, as the understanding of these concepts can vary considerably. In our culture, we used to follow the simple instruction "give and get" and did not talk about charity or solidarity. This, of course, meant reciprocal mutual obligations, including favors at all levels of social ties. A practical example of such reciprocal reciprocity would be, for example, the requirement that if someone stays with us for free, we can stay with them for free. If someone has lunch with us for free, we expect to have lunch with them for free. If we give someone a gift on their holiday, we also expect to be given a gift on our holiday. If we have someone visiting us unannounced, then we also expect to be able to visit them unannounced. If se are always available to them, we also expect them to be always available to us.  I could find even more such examples, because it is a fact that we very quickly translate someone's unilateral be...
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