Discussions on family trauma
Definitions of the family vary—at least, this is the position currently held by the academic field of sociology. A historical-sociological question has been raised: has there ever truly been a single, unified definition of the family, or have specific family forms been imposed historically and sociologically through the dominant social structure? A prime example is a long-standing family model consisting of grandparents (or the parents of one of the spouses), the married couple, and their children. Of course, other, often stigmatized figures—such as lovers or mistresses, along with the children born from these unions—were also frequently integrated into the family sphere. While these relationships were largely viewed as "sins," there is evidence suggesting that, in some cases, these lovers were valued more highly than the legitimate legal spouses. Marriage was, most often, a business arrangement—a union of two sets of assets and social statuses. Love—if love was present at ...