Life skills

It often happens to us that we actually do not know how to live successfully or with quality. Most likely, all the blame for such an unsuccessful life can simply be found in our lack of life skills or in the gap between the practice and theory of life and the appropriate perception of our social environment.

The saying: "Be diligent, honest and hardworking" does not necessarily bring you a successful life through the measure of well-being. It is also not necessary that this saying will bring you a peaceful sleep or a peaceful soul. Many people who have adhered to this saying have ended up among the victims and losers, because as such calm and hardworking people, they have simply become victims of bullies and criminals. They may have simply realized that they are simply incapable of swimming in the river of life with all the rocks of destruction, enslavement, exploitation and humiliation, because they are not able to cope and win. We used to call this the fight for life and the dignity of life.

Humanity has simply hit a wall with its culture in the criteria of a successful life. The criteria of a successful life are not measured only by the desired dignity of a person, but are also measured by well-being, or material goods. And the criteria by which we ensure a basic and comfortable life.

The rule often applies that the lower our material well-being, the greater the possibility of the most brutal contempt for human existence. And of course, the simplest human struggle for bare survival also increases. In such conditions, which are most prevalent during wars, natural disasters and economic crises, man's wolf nature also awakens, or the animal awakens, whose purpose is to satisfy its basic needs for survival. Or perhaps the number of these only catastrophically increases and tramples others, those peaceful and unsuccessful in the fight for bare survival.

All human humanity in such a destructive state dissolves in competition and satisfying basic needs for survival. This also shows that in such conditions, one's own predatory skills for life are actually most effective. Being the first to the bowl and getting full and leaving others hungry becomes a successful rule of the struggle for survival. This situation is also shown by almost every picture of any humanitarian action in conditions of military devastation or devastation caused by natural disasters. Very few people distribute the necessary goods in a disciplined and equal manner.

In such conditions, those who act according to the rules of peacetime prosperity and empathy for others and their own inability to resist even when attacked can draw the shortest path. These people remain behind, happy if they are not beaten, trampled and without basic goods for survival.

Perhaps the simple rule of life also applies that a person is a reflection of their environment. A peacetime environment with mass prosperity also produces peaceful people and good interpersonal relations with a lower percentage of deviation. Competition for basic survival goods turns most people into a prehistoric form of human manifestation in the form of animals, who have lost all humanity and empathetic attitude towards fellow humans and whose main guideline in life is to satisfy their own needs even at the expense of others.