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Life skills

It often happens to us that we actually do not know how to live successfully or with quality. Most likely, all the blame for such an unsuccessful life can simply be found in our lack of life skills or in the gap between the practice and theory of life and the appropriate perception of our social environment. The saying: "Be diligent, honest and hardworking" does not necessarily bring you a successful life through the measure of well-being. It is also not necessary that this saying will bring you a peaceful sleep or a peaceful soul. Many people who have adhered to this saying have ended up among the victims and losers, because as such calm and hardworking people, they have simply become victims of bullies and criminals. They may have simply realized that they are simply incapable of swimming in the river of life with all the rocks of destruction, enslavement, exploitation and humiliation, because they are not able to cope and win. We used to call this the fight for life and th...

Usposobljenost za življenje

  Velikokrat se nam zgodi, da pravzaprav ne znamo uspešno ali kvalitetno živeti. Najverjetneje pa lahko vso krivdo za takšno neuspešno življenje  enostavno iščemo v naši pomanjkljivi usposobljenosti za življenje ali pa tudi v razkoraku med prakso in teorijo življenja in ustrezno percepcijo našega družbenega okolja. Rek: "Bodi priden, pošten in delaven" namreč ni nujno, da vam prinese tudi uspešno življenje skozi merilo blagostanja. Prav tako ni nujno, da vam ta rek prinese miren spanec ali mirno dušo. Veliko ljudi, ki so se tega reka držali, je namreč končalo med žrtvami in zgubami, saj so kot takšni umirjeni in delavni ljudje, postali enostavno žrtve nasilnežev in kriminalcev. Lahko so preprosto tudi spoznali, da so enostavno nezmožni  plavanja v reki življenja z vsemi skalami uničevanja, zasužnjevanja, izrabljanja in poniževanja, ker se niso sposobni spopasti in zmagati. Temu smo včasih rekli boj za življenje in dostojanstvo življenja. Človeštvo je pač s svojo kulturo t...

Are we humans like flowers?

We are often exposed to public judgments or condemnations of our appearance. And I have had to explain many times that humans may be similar to flowers. We should all know that flowers are subject to a simple rule of good care. Good care for flowers also means that you will have beautiful blooming flowers. The simple rule of good care for flowers can be easily transferred to the rule of good care for humans. A person who is tortured and humiliated most likely also has such an appearance, or their appearance is also a reflection of torture and humiliation. A beautiful person is most likely, unlike a tortured and humiliated person, also well cared for in the psychosocial area itself. Every happy person usually also looks like a beautiful person. The positive energies in the psychosocial environment in which we reside, work and live can make us happy and thus also beautiful or blooming. This of course also means that it is very good if we get out of the environment that torments us, inclu...

Ali smo ljudje kot rožce

  Večkrat smo izpostavljeni javnim sodbam ali obsodbam svojega videza. In že večkrat sem morala razlagati, da smo ljudje mogoče podobni rožam. Za rože bi morali vsi vedeti, da se ravnajo po preprostem pravilu dobre oskrbe. Dobra oskrba rož namreč pomeni tudi, da boste imeli lepe cvetoče  rože. Preprosta pravilo dobre oskrbe rož, se da povsem preprosto prenesti tudi na pravilo dobre oskrbe človeka. Človek, ki je mučen in ponižan ima najverjetneje takšen tudi videz, oziroma je tudi njegov videz odraz mučenja in poniževanja.  Lep človek je najverjetneje, za razliko od mučenega in ponižanega človeka, tudi dobro oskrbovan že na samem psihosocialnem področju. Vsak srečen človek pa  ponavadi izgleda tudi kot lep človek. Že same pozitivne energije v psihosocialnem okolju, v katerem prebivamo, delamo in živimo nas lahko naredijo srečne in s tem tudi lepe ali cvetoče. To seveda pomeni tudi, da je zelo dobro, če se iz okolja, ki nas trpinči, vključno s ponižujočim odnosom, tudi...

Clothes make the man

  Our modern perception of modern society is based on the ideas of personal freedom and empathy for others. Above all, we have the idea that our society is based on tolerance for difference. Such ideas about our society are strongly contradictory to the principle of society that a person is judged according to the style or lack of style of clothing and that the old saying appears in society again: "The clothes make the man." We have known about crime in ties or white-collar crime for a very long time in the history of mankind. We have certainly known about crime in the highest strata of society for as long as the crime of poverty or crime in the lowest strata and also about difference. But we certainly encounter crime or criminals in one way or another in clothes. At least we should know about it. The principle of putting on clothes and killing people and stealing and breaking and violating others' fundamental human rights and freedoms should be unacceptable, just like th...

Obleka naredi človeka

 Naša sodobna percepcija novodobne družbe ima podlago na idejah osebne svobode in empatije do drugih. Predvsem pa imamo predstave, da naša družba temelji na strpnosti do drugačnosti. Takšne predstave o naši družbi pa so krepko kontradiktorne načelu družbe, da se človeka presodi glede na stil ali nestil oblačenja in da se nam pojavlja v družbi spet stari rek: "Človeka naredi obleka." Kriminal v kravatah ali kriminal belih ovratnikov poznamo že zelo dolgo v zgodovini človeštva. Sigurno poznamo kriminal v najvišjih slojih družbe tako dolgo, kot kriminal revščine ali kriminal najnižjih slojev in tudi drugačnosti. Vsekakor pa srečamo kriminal ali kriminalne osebe v takšnih ali drugačnih oblekah. Vsaj morali bi ga poznati. Načelo obleci obleko in ubijaj ljudi in kradi ter razbijaj in krši drugim temeljne človekove pravice in svoboščine, bi moralo biti nesprejemljivo, tako kot kriminal najslabše in/ali najceneje oblečenih. Spet se bomo zaradi tega morali zamisliti nad našimi življen...