V družini sta Ojdip in Elektra

  Zaljubljeni pari si večinoma želijo tudi povečati partnersko zvezo ali pa jo nadgraditi z otrokom. Rezultat ali plod ljubezni je ponavadi pač tudi otrok, načrtovan ali ne.

Otrok v svojem najzgodnejšem obdobju odraščanja ali kot dojenček tudi pogosto diktira čas svojih staršev. Joka ob vsaki potrebi in starši se ponavadi tudi prilagodijo njegovim potrebam. Zelo počasi pa mu starši, če so dobro poučeni o vzgoji otrok, poskušajo tudi privzgojiti urnik njegovih dejavnosti. In seveda uskladiti svoj partnerski čas z otrokovim potrebami in seveda tudi drugimi obveznostmi.

V kasnejšem obdobju odraščanja pa lahko opazimo pri otroku tudi Elektrin ali Ojdipov kompleks. Elektra poskuša zamenjati svojo mamo in prevzeti njen položaj pri očetu. Ojdip pa poskuša zamenjati svojega očeta in ga odstraniti na njegovem položaju pri mami. Seveda imajo v takšnem primeru imajo starši velik problem, kako razložiti svojemu otroku, da je samo njun otrok in kako mu razložiti svojo partnersko zvezo in seveda tudi potreben čas za vzdrževanje partnerske zveze. 

V kolikor zamudijo ta čas za razlago in pogovor ter pojasnjevanje vlog v družini ali pa ga zanemarijo, se partnerja pogosto enostavno oddaljita drug drugemu in med njima nastane praznina ter postaneta samo še oskrbovalca otroka.

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