Bigamy or monogamy

  The question of whether our laws or legislation only prevent bigamy and how is very topical. Many people interpret monogamy in their own way, but in principle monogamy means one person with only one person, to whom they are also supposed to be sexually faithful. In most countries of the North Pole, monogamy is also a forced or compulsory marriage commitment. The question of whether we are capable of monogamous intimate relationships in real life and whether the commitment to monogamy remains just a desired worn-out phrase for obtaining intimate partners is a good and topical one.

We can ask ourselves whether we are really more inclined to bigamy or monogamy, that we need a legal ban on bigamy in the Northern Hemisphere. We can also joke that the law only prevents the registration of bigamy, since you cannot live in an extramarital or marital union with two people at the same time. The law does allow you to have a wife and a mistress or a husband and a lover at the same time. However, the violation of monogamy or sexual infidelity or bigamy is a common reason for divorce in our everyday lives. Trauma caused by partners' infidelity or bigamy will be difficult to prove in court. Even as a violation of a legalized monogamous marriage, cheating or an affair, or even practicing two partners for many years, will not be considered ex officio or even at your own initiative in court, despite the fact that you had an official household with one person. In fact, in real life, you lived with one more hidden person, or you were in an intimate relationship with three or even more.

Monogamy or a relationship with only one partner or fidelity, including sexual, is what people like to expect from their partners. However, we have the most problems with our possible monogamous orientation and oath of fidelity to others, or to our intimate partners. We like to interpret a violation of monogamy or practicing bigamy as short jumps over the fence to the neighbors or as affairs with others or adventures that are not supposed to have much effect. A common interpretation of such actions is that we still love our intimate partners, but we wanted a little different variety in life, usually sexual. It is also very common to state or excuse that we have fallen into a boring and monotonous monogamous existing intimate relationship and that our infidelity is actually the fault of the existing intimate partner.

However, let's forget the fact that the love of our intimate partners is generally possessive and not at all tolerant of such adventures or bigamy or sexual cheating. Our expectations in intimate relationships are usually similar. Because of such expectations in an intimate relationship, most every caught bigamous partner can expect domestic violence from verbal onwards and actually a breakup with the existing intimate partner. The intimate partner who is cheated on has trauma. The partner who violated monogamy or the one who cheated on their intimate partner has very little trauma. The greatest utopian expectation in an intimate relationship is tolerance of our bigamous intimate life.