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The formation of a family as a problem of third parties.

  People like to believe, especially in Europe, in the so-called love of two or even a partnership, which slowly turns into the so-called nuclear family. A nuclear family means an extension of a partnership or union of two partners with a child or more children. This is an approximate and general description of our ideal of the crowned love of a man and a woman. Throughout the era of the ideal of the family, so-called others or even third parties also appear in these unions, expressing their opinion on creating a new life together or even just creating an intimate relationship.  The interference of the parents of the lovers in the history of the family was understood by many, because the so-called extended family, which lived in the common home of a loving or married couple with children, also often appeared with at least one parent. Usually, this home belonged to the parents, who very often still had the management of their home in their own hands. For this reason, their opin...

Nastanek družine kot problem tretjih

  Ljudje radi verjamemo, sploh v Evropi, v tako imenovano ljubezen v dvoje ali pa celo partnerstvo, ki se počasi prelevi v tako imenovano nuklearno družino. Nuklearna družina pomeni razširitev partnerstva ali zveze dveh partnerjev z otrokom ali več otroki. Takšen je približen in splošen opis našega ideala okronane ljubezni moškega in ženske. Vseskozi skozi ero ideala družine pa se nam v teh zvezi pojavljajo tudi tako imenovani drugi ali pa celo tretji, ki izražajo svoje mnenje o ustvarjanju novega skupnega življenja ali pa celo samo ustvarjanju intimne zveze.  Vmešavanje staršev zaljubljenih je v zgodovini družine marsikdo razumel, saj se je zelo pogosto pojavljala tako imenovana razširjena družina, ki je v skupnem domu zaljubljenega ali poročenega para z otroki, živela tudi vsaj z enimi starši. Ponavadi je bil ta dom od staršev, ki pa so zelo pogosto imeli gospodarjenje svojega doma še v svojih rokah. Prav zaradi tega se je zelo pogosto upoštevalo pri sklenitvi zakonske zveze...

The migrant-Balkan explosion

  The approaching 81st anniversary of the end of World War II is being marked by the outbreak of new war hotspots, not only with the four-year Russia-Ukraine war, which cannot be ended by diplomatic interventions. We can also add the attack on Israel and their response to the Gaza Strip and Lebanon. This year, we are also witnessing military incursions not only into Israeli territory, but into the entire Arabian Peninsula, allegedly caused by Iran, as it is supposed to stand up for the Palestinians and through military intervention win rights for the Palestinians according to their religious and state leaders. Of course, military and political analysts can additionally discuss the hidden causes of new military attacks and threats of military invasions of foreign territories and the game of empires. Imperialism is nowadays interpreted as economic, political and cultural control over other countries, which often also uses military intervention. And so we can witness new relationship...

Migrantsko-balkanska eksplozija

Bližajočo 81-letnico konca 2. svetovne vojne obeležujemo z izbruhom novih vojnih žarišč, ne samo z štiriletno vojno Rusija-Ukrajina, ki se nikakor ne more končati z diplomatskimi posredovanji. Dodamo še lahko napad na Izrael in njihov odgovor do Gaza stripa in Libanona. V tem letu pa smo priča tudi vojaškim vdorom ne samo na izraelsko ozemlje, ampak na celoten arabski polotok, ki naj bi jih povzročil Iran, saj naj bi se  postavil v bran Palestincem in z vojaškim posredovanjem izbojeval pravice Palestincem po navedbah njihovih verskih in državnih  voditeljev. Seveda lahko vojaški in politični analitiki še dodatno razpravljajo o skritih vzrokih novih vojaških napadov in grožnjam z vojaškimi vdori na tuja ozemlja in igro imperijev. Imperializem se dandanes namreč interpretira kot ekonomski in politični ter kulturni nadzor nad drugimi državami, ki pogosto uporablja tudi vojaško posredovanje. In tako smo lahko priča novim razmerjem ali merjenju političnih imperialističnih nadvladam...

Obsession with others

  Sometimes we really like to hear about so-called others. In this way, we somehow forget about ourselves, our joys and our sorrows. We also forget that those who talk about others have not told us anything about themselves and may also be obsessed with this person, especially given the fact that we like to hear about others. Why would we talk about others and/or analyze them sociologically and psychologically and in any other way is a good question. A good question is also whether we get appropriate information from these people who talk about others. And of course, there is also a corresponding doubt about their professional qualifications for personally analyzing others and an even greater doubt about their personal culture, so that they also disseminate their findings. However, when listening to rumors or the truth, we may also bump into the principle of illegal information gathering and dissemination of rumors. In principle, we should talk about others to the extent that their...

Obsedenost z drugimi

  Včasih zelo radi poslušamo o tako imenovanih drugih. Tako nekako pozabimo nase, na naše veselje in naše žalosti. Pozabimo pa tudi, da nam tisti, ki govorijo o drugih, niso ničesar povedali o sebi in so lahko tudi obsedeni z to osebo, predvsem ob dejstvu, da radi poslušamo o drugih. Zakaj bi govorili o drugih in/ali jih sociološko in psihološko in kako še drugače analizirali je dobro vprašanje. Dobro vprašanje je tudi ali od teh ljudi, ki govore o drugih,  dobimo ustrezne informacije. In seveda je tudi ustrezen dvom v njihovo strokovno usposobljenost za osebno analiziranje drugih in še večji dvom v njihovo osebno kulturo, da svoje ugotovitve tudi razširjajo.  Lahko pa ob poslušanju govoric ali resnica trknemo tudi ob načelo protizakonitega zbiranja informacij in razširjanja govoric. Načeloma naj bi namreč govorili o drugih, v kolikor se nas njihova dejanja posredno ali neposredno zadevajo, oziroma imajo na nas in naše premoženje neposredno ali posredno delovanje. Drugače...

Calculativity and/or common sence

  Calculativity and/or common sense can be discussed at length, as the understanding of these concepts can vary considerably. In our culture, we used to follow the simple instruction "give and get" and did not talk about charity or solidarity. This, of course, meant reciprocal mutual obligations, including favors at all levels of social ties. A practical example of such reciprocal reciprocity would be, for example, the requirement that if someone stays with us for free, we can stay with them for free. If someone has lunch with us for free, we expect to have lunch with them for free. If we give someone a gift on their holiday, we also expect to be given a gift on our holiday. If we have someone visiting us unannounced, then we also expect to be able to visit them unannounced. If se are always available to them, we also expect them to be always available to us.  I could find even more such examples, because it is a fact that we very quickly translate someone's unilateral be...

Preračunljivost in/ali zdrava pamet

  O preračunljivosti in/ali zdravi pameti lahko na dolgo razpravljamo, saj je razumevanje teh pojmov lahko precej različno. Včasih smo se v naši kulturi držali preprostega navodila "daj-dam" in nismo govorili ne o dobrodelnosti, ne o solidarnosti. To je seveda pomenilo recipročne vzajemne obveznosti, vključno z uslugami na vseh ravneh socialnih vezi. Praktičen primer takšne vzajemne recipročnosti bi bila na primer že kar zahteva, da če nekdo pri nas zastonj prebiva, lahko tudi mi pri njemu zastonj prebivamo. Če je nekdo pri nas zastonj na kosilu, tudi mi pričakujemo, da smo pri njih zastonj na kosilu. Če nekoga obdarimo ob njegovih praznikih, tudi mi pričakujemo obdaritev ob naših praznikih. Če imamo nekoga nenajavljenega na obisku, potem tudi mi pričakujemo, da lahko prihajamo na obisk k njemu nenajavljeni. Če nam je nekdo vedno na razpolago, tudi mi pričakujemo, da nam je tudi on vedno na razpolago. Takšnih primerov bi lahko našla še več, saj je dejstvo, da enostranske kori...

Priority of life

  Our life is long and throughout this long journey through life we usually set priorities in our lives. These priorities can be dreams about an educational and professional path from a young age all the way to personal priorities, or priorities of business and personal life. The priorities of our lives of course depend on the given and acquired opportunities to achieve a certain priority or goal of life. Some certainly have high goals, while others are satisfied with the achieved minimum goals. Of course, goals also depend on our dreams, which should have a realistic basis and, of course, realistic opportunities to realize dreams with the help of others. Some individuals succeed in realizing their priorities of life or dreams, while others fail. This is the case in all areas of our lives, including personal ones. "I created everything from scratch with my own hands, my brain and my work", is a very rare true statement, which also means a very narrow circle of people or a sma...

Prioriteta življenja

Naše življenje je dolgo in vso to dolgo pot skozi življenje si ponavadi zastavljamo prioritete v našem življenju. Te prioritete so lahko že od mladih nog sanje o izobraževalni in poklicni  poti vse do osebnih prioritet, oziroma prioritet poslovnega in osebnega življenja. Prioritete našega življenja so seveda odvisne od danih in pridobljenih možnosti za dosego neke prioritete ali cilja življenja. Nekateri imajo vsekakor visoke cilje, drugi  pa so spet zadovoljni z doseženimi minimalnimi cilji. Vsekakor pa so tudi cilji odvisni od naših sanj, ki pa naj bi imele realne podlage in seveda realne možnosti za uresničitev sanj s pomočjo drugih. Nekaterim posameznikom uspe realizirati svoje prioritete življenja ali sanje, spet drugim pa spodleti. Tako je na vseh področjih našega življenja, tudi osebnega. "Vse sem iz nič ustvaril z lastnimi rokami, svojimi možgani in svojim delom", je zelo redka resnična navedba, kar pomeni tudi zelo ozek krog ljudi ali manjši del naše populacije, ki k...

Locked in boxes

  My constant complaint is slowly becoming that I am locked in the box of my profession and therefore limited in my free thinking. This limited thinking locked in the framework of the profession, or rather definitions, rules, laws and everything else learned through institutional education, which also means knowledge of a whole bunch of factual definitions, seems to have earned me the label of a fool who is prevented from innovative thinking. And I'm afraid I'm not the only one. It's true, as I mentioned earlier, that through institutional education I had to demonstrate knowledge of a whole bunch of definitions. First of all, I had to know what I was talking about if I used words that otherwise have a broader descriptive meaning. Such a word began with the very concept of sociology and the areas that this discipline or science deals with. Without this knowledge, it is better to be silent in your studies or even better, to leave yourself before you are excluded by the educat...

Zaprtost v škatle

Moja stalnica počasi postaja očitek, da sem zaprta v škatlo svoje profesije in zato omejena pri svobodnem razmišljanju. To omejeno razmišljanja zaprto v okvirje profesije, oziroma definicije, pravila, zakone in še vse drugo priučeno skozi institucionalno izobraževanje, ki pomeni tudi znanje celega kupa faktografskih definicij, mi je izgleda  pridobilo oznako bedaka, ki mu je onemogočeno inovativno razmišljanje. In bojim se, da nisem edina. Res je, kakor sem že prej omenila, da sem morala skozi institucionalno izobraževanje, pokazati znanje na celem kupu definicij. Najprej sem na,reč morala vedeti o čem govori, če sem uporabila besede, ki imajo drugače širši  opisni pomen. Takšna beseda se je začela že pri samem pojmu sociologija in področjih, ki jih obravnava ta veda ali znanost. Brez tega znanja namreč je bolje, da ste tiho na študiju ali pa še bolje, da sami odidete preden vas izločijo pedagogi, oziroma na študiju propadete. Ko obvladate na vsakem študiju katerekoli vede ali...

One service provider and the market situation

  The foundation of a large range of services is also the foundation of an appropriate relationship and the foundation of an appropriate price. It may sound funny to you, but it is less funny to those who used passenger transport when the announced and indeed the current shortage of gasoline and diesel was announced. Even public passenger transport, which is supposed to operate even in adverse conditions, not only weather conditions, but also when we are supposed to switch to it during an energy crisis and therefore maintain it, can get the brunt of an absolute and sole and therefore inadequate service, which has its origin in the imperial fog of the only carrier or service provider. Even worse, we can judge with suspicion of an artificially created energy crisis if we find that the state intervened in such a state of fuel shortage with commodity reserves. Later, it was also found that the fuel may have actually been sold to another country. It may also have been waiting for the ne...

En ponudnik storitev in stanje na trgu

  Temelj velike ponudbe storitev, je tudi temelj ustreznega odnosa in temelj ustrezne cene. Mogoče vam zveni smešno, manj smešno pa je tistim, ki so uporabili potniški promet ob najavi in res tudi trenutnem pomanjkanju bencina in dizla. Tudi javni potniški promet, ki naj bi vozil tudi ob neugodnih razmerah, ne samo vremenskih, ampak tudi  naj bi se preusmerili na njega ob energetski krizi in ga zato vzdržujemo, lahko dobi skomine po absolutni in edini in zato neustrezni storitvi, ki ima izvor v carski meglici edinega prevoznika ali ponudnika storitev. Še huje lahko sodimo z sumom na umetno ustvarjeno energetsko krizo, če ugotovimo, da je v takšno stanje pomanjkanja goriva posegla država z blagovnimi rezervami. Kasneje pa se je ugotovilo tudi, da so  gorivo pravzaprav mogoče celo prodali v drugo državo. Prav tako pa so mogoče tudi čakali naslednji dan velikih podražitev goriva, bencina in tako dalje. Tako nekako deluje prosti trg, ki potrebuje tudi državne posege za zmanjš...

A surge of migrants in the EU?

  If the EU last year promised a decline in migrant waves, especially illegal ones, the data on illegal migrants in the first two months of 2026 is worrying. In both months of this year, many more illegal migrants arrived via the southern migration route across the Schengen border into the European Union (EU), which is guarded by Croatia. However, the number of illegal migrations has also increased in Slovenia. In January this year, the EU recorded a 60% drop in illegal migrations. According to data from the Slovenian border police, an increase in illegal migrations was already recorded in January 2026, as they recorded 1,721 illegal border crossings, most of which were of course on the border with Croatia. Most illegal migrants came from Afghanistan, where the Taliban rule, and Egypt and Sudan. In January 2025, only 1,169 illegal border crossings were registered, where illegal migrants from Afghanistan again dominated.  Similar data is also available for February 2026. Last y...

Naval migrantov v EU?

  Če si je EU lansko leto obetala upad migrantskih valov, sploh pa ilegalnih, so podatki o ilegalnih migrantih v prvih dveh mesecih letošnjega 2026, zaskrbljujoči. Po južni migrantski poti čez Šengensko mejo v evropsko unijo (EU), ki jo čuva Hrvaška, je namreč prišlo v obeh mesecih tega leta veliko več ilegalnih migrantov. Povečalo pa se je število ilegalnih migracij tudi v Sloveniji. V EU pa so še januarja letos zabeležili 60 % upad ilegalnih migracij. Po podatkih slovenske obmejne policije so že januarja 2026 zabeležili porast ilegalnih migracij, saj so zabeležili 1.721 ilegalnih prestopov meje, največ seveda na meji s Hrvaško. Največ ilegalnih migrantov je prišlo iz Afganistana, kjer vladajo Talibani in  Egipta in Sudana. Januarja 2025 pa je bilo registriranih le 1.169 ilegalnih prestopov meje, kjer so spet prevladovali ilegalni migranti iz Afganistana. Podobni podatki so zavedeni tudi za mesec februar 2026. Lansko leto je prestopilo ilegalno slovensko mejo 2.385 migrantov,...

G-7 vs BRICS

Competition between economic groups is becoming a very topical topic, as BRICS has announced a higher per capita domestic product (GDP), while the G-7 itself has it. The division into economic groups is becoming even more topical, as war zones are emerging inside and outside individual economic groups, and such a state of war can be described as an economic or trade war. In addition to the USA (United States of America), Canada and Japan and Great Britain, the G-7 also consists of France, Germany and Italy. According to the latest data, their global GDP share is between 29 and 30%. BRICS was originally founded by Brazil, Russia, India and China, and later South Africa joined them. The name of the economic group is also made up of the initials of the names of the BRICS member states. Recently, Egypt, Ethiopia, Iran, the United Arab Emirates and Indonesia have also joined them. In addition, BRICS also has partner countries such as Belarus, Bolivia, Cuba, Kazakhstan, Malaysia, Nigeria, T...

G-7 vs BRICS

Tekmovanje med gospodarskimi združenji postaja zelo aktualna tema, saj je BRICS objavil večji domači proizvod na prebivalca (BDP), ko pa ga ima sam G-7. Še bolj pa postaja razdelitev na gospodarska združenja aktualna, v koliko nastajajo znotraj in zunaj posameznih gospodarskih združenj vojna žarišča in lahko takšno vojno stanje označimo kot gospodarsko ali trgovinsko vojno. G-7 sestavljajo poleg ZDA (Združene države Amerike), Kanade in Japonske ter Velike Britanije še Francija, Nemčija in Italija. Po zadnjih podatkih je njihov  svetovni delež BDP med  29 do 30 %. BRICS so originalno ustanovili Brazilija, Rusija Indija in Kitajska, kasneje pa se jim je pridružila tudi Južna Afrika. Iz njihovih začetnic poimenovanja držav članic BRICS pa je sestavljeno tudi poimenovanje gospodarskega združenje. V zadnjem času pa so se jim pridružile tudi Egipt, Etiopija, Iran, Združeni arabski emirati in Indonezija. Poleg tega imajo BRICS tudi partnerske države kot so Belorusija, Bolivija, Kuba,...

The Mask of Civilization and the Fragility of Morality

  Although modern society teaches us ethics, empathy, and respect for other people's property, these values often seem to be just a thin layer of varnish over our primary nature. In stable times, this "mask of civilization" holds up, as the system provides us with security and predictability. But when the foundations are shaken — be it an economic crisis, political instability, or personal failure — the line between mine and yours begins to blur. The problem arises when the illegal becomes socially acceptable, if only it is "inventive" enough. In the modern world, theft no longer occurs simply through breaking into a store, but through complex financial fraud, circumvention of laws, and exploitation of systemic loopholes. This "white collar" form of illegality may be less brutal than physical destruction, but it is essentially the same: it involves the appropriation of other people's labor for the sake of one's own greed. The Digital Age and th...

Civilizacijska maska in krhkost morale

  Čeprav nas sodobna družba uči etike, empatije in spoštovanja tuje lastnine, se zdi, da so te vrednote pogosto le tanek sloj laka čez našo primarno naravo. V stabilnih časih ta "civilizacijska maska" drži, saj nam sistem zagotavlja varnost in predvidljivost. Ko pa se temelji zamajejo — pa naj gre za gospodarsko krizo, politično nestabilnost ali osebni neuspeh — se meja med mojim in tvojim začne zamegljevati. Problem nastane, ko nelegalno postane družbeno sprejemljivo, če je le dovolj "iznajdljivo". V sodobnem svetu se kraja ne dogaja več le z vlomom v trgovino, temveč s kompleksnimi finančnimi malverzacijami, izigravanjem zakonov in izkoriščanjem sistemskih lukenj. Ta "beli ovratnik" nelegalnosti je morda manj surov kot fizično uničevanje, a je v svojem bistvu enak: gre za prisvajanje tujega truda zaradi lastnega pohlepa. Digitalna doba in razosebljanje dobrin Novi časi prinašajo tudi nove oblike plenilskega nagona. Digitalni svet je ustvaril distanco med...