The crumbling myth of the family

  In our everyday practical lives, people like to destroy some myth, which then remains only a historical artifact or a lost piece of human history. In modern times, we have also begun to destroy the myth of the origin or creation of the family. In our society, personal freedom in all areas is valid, which is only partially limited by laws.

Our family myth was defined by two lovers, or partners, who get married and also decide to expand or complete their love with a child or offspring. This is supposed to be the ideal image of our modern family. The family myth even defined such a relationship as the desired form lasting until death. Such a family myth is supposed to sail like a safe boat on the river of life. Partners are supposed to protect and support each other, respect each other, and their offspring are supposed to grow up in a safe and loving family environment.

 No one has or does not include divorce or separation of family partners in this family myth, with all the associated disappointments, hatred, deceptions and all other traumatic family experiences. No one should have foreseen in advance that, upon marriage, there would also be a separation or dissolution of the marriage or family union and fights for custody of children. Somewhere in the darkness of this family myth lies the information about almost or even more than every third divorce or broken family for one reason or another. A common cause of this situation is also blind love, which shows its face of differences between partners only after marriage. However, the partners are unable to overcome these differences and differences. A common cause of divorce is also meeting better other partners and getting tired of the monotonous permanent partner.

Perhaps due to the dubiousness of the family myth or its uselessness or dysfunctionality, the information that more than half of children are born to unmarried mothers has also leaked out. The reasons for this fact, which dispels family harmony, may be different. However, this fact is also proof that the family ideal is disappearing. 

Traumas remain, one way or another, and the bitter aftertaste of gullibility and blindness with love or even previous calculation. 

To all others who practice and maintain the family ideal without major upheavals, and precisely because of such a reality of the family ideal, even greater laurels of family success belong.

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