I'll come when I come

 I'll come when I come is very often associated with you being always available to me. In any case, this saying is often wrapped up in the inability to plan in terms of time. Of course, this also means that such a person does not expect that time or time planning exists for you. You are always available.

Being always available when someone who comes when he comes to you means that you will have a hard time planning your obligations. Each of us certainly has other obligations in addition to other plans, which we then have to plan and postpone indefinitely for the sake of the person who comes when he comes. The only plan we can still make with such company is then waiting for the person who comes when he comes.

A practical example of this is a joint lunch. You can heat up the dish or leave it somewhere warm, but such a dish will definitely not be in the same condition as it was freshly prepared. Another way to resolve this undefined arrival time for lunch is to just hope that such a person will leave you time to prepare lunch when they finally arrive. And of course, the third example of solving this problem of an undefined lunch time is to wait for him/her hungry, then go to a restaurant together for lunch. Maybe the best solution is to eat lunch yourself or not prepare it at all.

The same applies to all other usually scheduled dates, meetings or gatherings. The exploitation of the inability to plan time is endless. Force majeure (natural disasters, timetables, delays, unexpected emergencies, etc.) that prevent time planning are of course real, but so are people with whom we can never agree on an exact time to meet, regardless of the forces present.

The definition of planning meetings, which means in practice that you meet with this and that person at a certain place and at a certain time, simply clashes with the reality of your eternal waiting and the eternal fact that you are always available to someone. If we ourselves do not realize that we always do not have time and set rules for meetings and also highlight our obligations and desires for rest, meetings with others and the like, such people will not realize this on their own. A person is always to blame for everything. If a person does not realize that they have obligations to themselves and others or, simply put, a schedule, then others will never acknowledge your obligations to you. In this way, the person submits themselves to the fact of eternal availability without other obligations, which borders on slavery. 

Expecting such people, who come when they come and expect you to always be available, to realize for themselves that they are not the center of your life or the only obligation or the only meaning of life for you, is absurd.

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